Showing posts with label Philosophy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Philosophy. Show all posts

Thursday, 1 May 2014

The journey has just begun..

   I can’t help but pull out the cliché card from my pocket to describe the beginning of a new chapter in my Book of Life. “And how time flies!” Even though it is used metaphorically but in the ten ‘short yet long’ months at my journalism school, I think I actually saw how time flew. No, not joking. The clock in its different forms, shapes and sizes haunted me forever reminding me of those rigid contours of the deadlines. Did you think who really cares about deadlines? Oh! A journalist, irrespective of the fact if it’s a student or a professional can surely enlighten you with the real value of time (timeliness).
Nine months back it was all different.

   While doing the undergraduate course, sense of urgency in life had gone astray. Both the education set up in the college and mesmerizing beauty of the new city were responsible for the obnoxious carefree attitude. But you tell me, how a college student can concentrate when it’s a learnt fact that exams are only an annual responsibility, when attendance criterion exists only on the chequered-patterned pages of a register littered with dark red slanting lines and the assignments are optional. It has to succumb to adventures of the new city calling it to unravel its mysteries from every direction. And so Chandigarh ensured that the ‘deadline’ word lightened in my mind dictionary. The only time it mattered was when the scare of the strict night in-timings of the PG accommodation (Girls PG, I tell you!) sprang back to life and even a couple of seconds made a difference.

Then the J-school happened.

    There wasn’t even the basic transition phase. Life was dragged back to the track. But, this time the wind blew in the opposite direction. From early mornings aided by multiple alarms to coffee overdosed late nights, it was all hectic. Important Assignments and more assignments were the order of the day(s) in the J-school. Sometimes it was the reporting, other times the cumbersome editing. And some days hell broke loose because those days were based on photography assignments (umm..I am photographically challenged). There was never any chance of carefree attitude because there were always DEADLINES looming over our heads. Even for cutting-chai drinking sessions. As mentioned in the beginning, time used to fly. Especially during assignments minute and the second hand of clocks made every possible effort to outrun each other.

    After ten months, life has come to a full circle and laid foundation for the new beginnings. Every moment spent inside the third floor campus was worth the effort. The super fast software lessons, forcing the eyes to hear those lectures, taking turns to read the presentation slides in order to stay alert in the class, surfing and nodding during the discussion to prove that one is actually present in the class, though being virtually absent. With the lessons learnt from the past, its time to experience the STRESS in reality. Its time to learn, unlearn and relearn again.


Thursday, 7 November 2013

Reality

       A few days back my younger sister bowled a googly. Owing to my incompetence in deciphering the delivery in a professional manner, I was clean bowled. The googly question? She apparently wanted to know the way we differentiate between what is right and what is wrong!!

          And I was in a fix. Even if my peer group calls me a geek (no, i am not!), from where was I supposed to extract knowledge to be able to give a convincing reply? Wouldn’t you agree with me? 
No copybook knowledge that was rattafied over the years came to my rescue. With this, self introspection was given an impetus and I was shifted in my contemplation mode.

           Isn’t it true that we all have our own definition for right and wrong? We all have our own pair of sifting glasses on all the time 24*7 from which we sieve the right and dump the wrong. And we all have our respective reasons to categorize these things. Our criteria are set. A set already perceived notion that may or may not be based on our own past experience or lessons learnt by others taught to us time and again ifluences. If this is how we classify the right and wrong, then how can we brand the other person’s notion? Our right maybe wrong for some and their right, our wrong.

         It all comes down to our perceived notions. Living in a free world we all have been brought up in certainly distinct surroundings, under the influence of starkly different conditions. This has a detrimental effect on our perception about the world. It’s seldom that two person hold the same view in everything. Then we must agree to disagree and give respect the other person’s view. But I know, it’s not that easy to practice as it is easy to preach! Our egos are huge and we usually don’t appreciate the word wrong. After all who likes to be wrong when there is an easy way out to be right!. Is this right or wrong? I leave it to you to decide on that.


Wednesday, 6 November 2013

Life, as we know it

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Jab jab dard ka baadal chaya
Jab ghum ka saya lehraya
Jab aansoo palkon tak aya
Jab yeh tanha dil ghabraya

Humne dil ko yeh samjhaya
Dil aakhir tu kyun rota hai
Duniya mein yunhi hota hai

Yeh jo gehre sannate hain
Waqt ne sabko hi baante hain
Thoda ghum hai sabka qissa
Thodi dhoop hai sabka hissa
Aankh teri bekaar hi nam hai
Har pal ek naya mausam hai
Kyun tu aise pal khota hai
Dil aakhir tu kyun rota hai 
                                             .....


      Perfect life! I wonder sometimes what exact are the situations that give boundary to this othervise pseudo-perimeter . Who are those 'more privileged' and is there are any specific criterion?

     Seems like all the fairy tales exist only in the virtual world of books and movies, a jump into the real scenario and everything (almost) changes.

      At one point, we are embroiled in our own problems that we totally disregard and many a times completely ignore problems of our fellow humans. A little heed and suddenly it dawns upon us, 'k mera dukh toh kitna kam hai'(my worries are so petty!). Yes, i know we all have Been-there-done-that. But then aren't we all humans! Self-pampering and protection is a stimulus reaction. Even if we are aware of the fact that our problems are petty, we love to exaggerate and gain sympathy. And mind you! this section of sympathy finds its biggest consumer in oneself. And its then that the seldom equilibrium of demand and supply is lost and we are back to square one.

      As above lines try to put it across , dawn and dusk are a regular part of our lives. Neither can we run away from them nor can we expect ourselves to be the new superheroes with just-discovered 'twilight' powers. Without being impartial we all have been given our share of sugar with a dash of salt. The difference lies in our shades of life that we flaunt. Nobody is living a life straight out from a 'perfect novel' as the perfect character. Problems have been there and they are here to stay for long.Its acceptable to fall but unacceptable to not rise. Grab the opportunity, add experience to your book of life and traveler, move ahead.

     Face it head on. Sympathy is a big no-no. I agree that it is indeed relaxing to confide in somebody and open your heart. But creating hullabaloo is seriously not cool. As they say, life is small but its an adventure. Smile more and keep the world's thought process in motion which seeks the reason behind that smile. Before the bubble bursts, one should learn to appreciate others and not to forget oneself! And just enjoy the beautiful adventure!!